Yes, I am still out there.
And according to my analytics, you are, too.
So please take a moment and comment.
I'd like to get to know some of you!
~Ms. Betty
What Goes On In Ms. Betty's World
I talk about much more than kink, though. There are many sides to me and I tend to express them all. I write about whatever happens to be on my mind each day, from pet peeves to news stories to what's happening out there in the arts.
I started exploring the world of power exchange 14 years ago. While a Lady Dominant isn't all I am, I believe it influences the rest of what I am, just as the way the rest of what I am influences the type of Domme I am. So here I share all of me because I believe it is all relevant to what I do and how I do it.
I do talk in very frank terms at times about BDSM activities, dynamics, and other scene-related issues, but I talk about plenty of vanilla things, too.
Sit and stay awhile. I think you'll like it here.
Ms. Betty
Thursday, November 10, 2011
Happy LOL day!
Sunday, November 6, 2011
When behaving badly works in your favor
Regular readers of this blog* know that I work for a thrift store.
This week our corporate office handed down the directive that we are supposed to create a fancy, magazine-worthy holiday table setting and submit pictures to be used to promote the stores.
Oh and if we create the best one we win a prize.
Ok, fine, no problem. Only the boss is a bit high strung, impulsive and indecisive and after myself and another girl working on this for hours on end this past week we still don't even have a table cloth.
This morning I finally lost my patience with the whole thing, handed the boss the stack of 5 more rejected plates (she's rejected 17 different china patterns-- every single set of matching dishes in the store) and told her "you know what, you need to find someone else to help you with this. I'm going to do my job."
Then I walked away and left her standing there.
Later I heard from the other girl that the boss was deeply offended by my doing that.
I don't care.
At this point it just is not worth the stress or aggravation to keep wasting my time with a project that I cannot possibly succeed with.
And I don't feel it is unreasonable to expect my manager to be a mature adult and have reasonable expectations, like understanding that we can't conjure things out of thin air and that what's on the shelf is all we've got to work with.
Besides, it's my bloody camera and I'm under no obligation to volunteer my personal property for use so if she wants pictures she can damn well act like an adult and behave in a civilized manner.
All of which I think she's realized because there was an immediate and dramatic change in her behavior.
And I didn't even have to use a paddle.
~Ms. Betty
*(Do I still have any of those? I know I am not the most frequent poster!)