Ms. Betty's World: Kitten With a Whip

What Goes On In Ms. Betty's World

I started a blog to reflect on what I've learned in my life and to reach out to others engaged in our curious about BDSM.

I talk about much more than kink, though. There are many sides to me and I tend to express them all. I write about whatever happens to be on my mind each day, from pet peeves to news stories to what's happening out there in the arts.

I started exploring the world of power exchange 14 years ago. While a Lady Dominant isn't all I am, I believe it influences the rest of what I am, just as the way the rest of what I am influences the type of Domme I am. So here I share all of me because I believe it is all relevant to what I do and how I do it.

I do talk in very frank terms at times about BDSM activities, dynamics, and other scene-related issues, but I talk about plenty of vanilla things, too.

Sit and stay awhile. I think you'll like it here.

Ms. Betty

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Kitten With a Whip

Apologies to Ann-Margaret fans, but I'm talking about a different kitten and a different whip.

This is Maggie:
She came into our lives this past December when she showed up on the porch looking for something to eat and shelter from the freezing cold and snow.

Of course she's much bigger now, and she and I are having a slight difference of opinion over who owns my new quirt.

As you can tell, Maggie thinks it belongs to her. No matter where I put it, she has to dig it out, knock it down and drag it around. She'll even hiss at me when I try to take it away.

You can't reason with a cat. I've gone straight for the brute force approach: squirt bottle, but so far she remains undeterred. The quirt is hers, and there's no two ways about it. However she's indicated she might be kind enough to let me borrow it from time to time.

Good thing. She may have a passion for this particular whip, but I have to say her technique with it leaves something to be desired.